I think it's terrifying that a person that loves people so much ends up lonely.
It's not that he doesn't have friends, he's good at making new ones too, but perhaps he's too afraid to move onwards to the next level of connection between a person.
It's probably good that strong connections should happen naturally. Forcing something is so unhealthy.
The problem with one opening themselves to another is the issue of trust mostly. People that get so hurt get so lonely and locked up from everything and everyone - it's simply terrible.
Experience teaches humans to be careful for the next time, but how locked up can a person be?!
Sometimes people get hurt, it's hard to blame someone because usually the good people don't hurt on purpose, which within comes the complexity of realizing who's right or wrong.
But, there's no right and wrong globally in some situations, it's just a right and wrong personally. It's a place where you go with your gut despite what others might say or if it might hurt someone else (though it should be minimized to the least).
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